When reading my 'For today' book yesterday the following line really struck me 'the best discipline is love'. It talked about the mothers heart always knowing what is best for her child and trusting that instinct/ love. It encourages us to show love by being loving.
I hope I am doing that, I coincidentally asked JJ the other day about what he liked best and least about me and I expected that he would say I told him off too much, got too angry, shouted a lot etc etc but he really did not and I believe he was being genuine. He just told me he did not like it when I shouted at him and he hated it if I tapped him. I asked if I did it often and he said no and sometimes he said he was cheeky and probably ought to be told off! lol